who are you?

finally I am part of something huge - the internet. And trust me, I know huge. I have some aunts that can compete in the "huge" department. Anyhow, I am now a blogger. This is truly exciting.
I think that the best way to break the ice, or to start off any friendship is by introducing yourself. So let me tell you what I think you need to know on our first meeting.
My name is Cindy. Most call me Cin, Cindy, Cinders, or beautiful. You can call me any - I have no preferrence.
I am older then most think. I have to thank my mom for that. Our family ages pretty well.
I was born in the greatest city out there, in the greatest state. E. Los Angeles, CA. I was not born with a silver spoon in my mouth, but I was not left hung to dry once dinner time came.
My siblings are amazing. Each with their own personality, but everyone can tell that we are related when we all get in the same room. I think we tend to be bullies. We do talk a lot of shit. With the exception of the eldest. She is there to giggle mostly. She makes me feel so damn funny sometimes. My mom is the one that held us all together. She is a strong, 4 ft 11 in, woman. I am proud of her. Overall, we all love to hang out and have a good time.
So what makes me ... me. Smiling and laughter is key in my life. Music, reading, writing, and movies help my life flow smoother. My 7th grade teacher wrote in my yearbook "To: Cindy. You are a very witty girl. I hope you stop talking so much..." I think she hit it on the mark. I talk as much as I type or text or write. My mind is on a constant over drive. Having said that, I LOVE a good conversation. About what you might ask?... anything really. As long as you have an opinion and I can sense passion or commitment, I am down to conversate. Even if I do not agree with you... I love to listen to people that have something to say. (please do not confuse this with opening your mouth just to be included. as opposed to opening your mouth because you are actually contributing to the conversation in a positive manner. There is a difference.) I always have an opinion. Never doubt this. If you stump me... I salute you. I do not care for being Ms. Popular. I am not here to have 425.3 friends and counting. I love being alone sometimes. We all need our alone time. I'm girly, but not in all of the typical ways. I am girly because I am a girl.. not because I am girly. Trust me... if you stick around... you will understand. I am very loyal to my family, friends, work, and most importantly to my heart.
I dislike arrogance and ignorance. I dislike people that open their mouths for the sake of having something to say and being part of a conversation. I agree with free speech, but not when it is going to lower everyone's IQ. I always love to say "savor silence." Enjoy it people. Silence is not always a bad thing. I dislike people that follow trends for the sake of being part of the flock. Be trendy because you like the trend... not to be included. I dislike hypocrites. I hate bobbleheads. I do not like most people for the simple reason that they swallow everything they are given and are too lazy to think outside of the box. I hate 15 year olds that are having babies for reasons like... "I'm in love" or "I don't want to be old when my child is 9 and wants to play" Give me a break.
I just realized that I can really go on and on with this. But then what would I have to say in my other posts? So for the sake of keeping anyone interested... this will be all for now.
Please come back from time to time. Just please make sure you leave the bullkaka at the door.

enjoy the silence
-Cin